Alexander Formos & Eurydice Eloise Wayles
spiritual writings and shamanic healings
We have contemplated about the nature of sacred brothel work after many different spiritual experiments, and we came to certain conclusions in our observations that we would like to present here. In this essay, we will concentrate on our spiritual observations regarding some of the spiritual work that’s possible to do with the assistance of sacred prostitutes. As these writings are based on personal experiments with sacred sex work practices and rituals, we are only growing in our understanding, but at the same time, certain things already seem quite apparent to us. Even though some of the observations may seem incomplete, we believe they deserve further discussion and exploration.
Certainly, we have to begin by stating the self-evident truth that sacred prostitutes and sexual priestesses are designed by Nature as channels of divine love. But as sexual priestesses sell intimate relationships and their spiritual work primarily deals with the energy body, the primary essence of sacred prostitutes is to sell this universal love through the act of sex. They are healing the wounds of men and, therefore, the scars of the world by channeling this divine light of love through their bodies. The main reason why Nature created sacred prostitutes is to balance the energies in our world. Fulfilling energy exchanges and the elimination of destructive energies through empowering sexual encounters can come in many forms.
Through the magic of sex, sacred prostitutes can alchemize any energies into higher vibrational states. In their highest essence, these women purge the world from negative and even demonic vibrations every single day, often risking their lives to fulfill their destiny. Still, their fate is supported by the divine design, so Nature protects, provides, and empowers sacred prostitutes to offer this service for her. That’s the foundation of our worldview on the nature of this craft. Yet the following ideas explore one of the deeper layers of the natural design and the magical work of sacred prostitutes performed in sacred brothels.
For the purpose of our story, we invite you to imagine the life of an average man from any walk of life in a relationship, whether it is a marriage or a loving commitment. By natural design, a man heeds his woman and aspires to be there for her, especially when she feels vulnerable or defeated. His essence as a protector empowers him to create a spiritual space where she can easily express the entirety of her inner world. He’s in love with his woman and tries to tend to her needs, empower her, and care for her in any way he can. However, in a stressful situation, a woman may struggle to express her needs in an empowering way, and partners may find themselves in a conflicting situation. She may raise her voice or command his essence in her emotional outburst. When a woman demands or expects something from a man, and he's unable to deliver, she takes power away from him, as he can’t be the man he would like to be for her. She may attack or criticize him for a failure to absolve her pains, engulfing him with her energies of frustration. As he is designed to be her shelter, he assumes her negative energies upon himself to make her burden more tolerable. But he equally experiences his own negative emotions of self-rejection, as he would feel like he’s not enough if he can’t save his woman.
Even though such a situation was created from the challenges of life and not because he failed in some way, he understands that he must hold the space for her so she can express every painful and ugly emotion to release them. That’s a healthy reality of committed relationships - even when a man can’t resolve a woman’s issues at the moment, he aspires to create a safe space where she can cry her tears without shame or fear of being judged for her essence. He allows her to be her whole self, as that’s how they grow and heal in their union. In the process, a man experiences everything his woman is, and she can explain her most profound and complex emotions from everything she might be going through. He allows her to be too much for him, as she can only be her true self in the safe space of their union, where she knows that she will be heard and supported, where her tears will be acknowledged and felt with presence.
Yet, sometimes, those energies become too overpowering for a man, especially if he knows that he can’t really do anything to change the reality of his beloved and remove her pains, be it financial struggles or other life complications. He wants to solve an issue, as Nature designs him this way, but he can’t. So he would feel small and diminished like he’s not himself. In the process, he would, in return, blame his woman for his negative emotions. He’s experiencing a mix of anger, frustration, guilt, and shame as he is unable to provide for her needs or make her dreams a reality. His insecurities resurface while he is filled with an honest desire to be there for her. He cannot save her, even though he would like to.
Emotions and energies bottle up. A woman creates complex, negative feelings inside of him, but he can't show them to her because this time exists for her, and he honors his spiritual obligations. He may even be angry with her for disrespecting him and diminishing his essence, but he doesn't want that energy around her, as he knows how destructive it would be. He continues to love and forgive her, but he has experienced too much of her. He suppresses his negative perceptions of himself, as he is feeling powerless. So, the conflict can eventually become more about his inner struggles than their initial issues.
Men feel emotional damage when yelled at, commanded, or expected to do something they cannot do for a reason outside their control. It’s traumatizing for them to feel like a disappointment or as if the realities of life tie their hands. A man wishes to be everything to his woman, and he’s deeply disappointed when he feels like a failure to his own standards of a man. The resentment builds up in the form of the energies that lovers exchange, and the distance between partners eventually grows without the couple understanding what's happening to them.
There are also situations where a woman may not truly understand the state of her man or attempt to spiritually castrate him. If he goes through specific emotional or professional trouble, struggling to get through a challenging period of his life, his woman may try to insist on her ways of dealing with it or demand that he follow her advice. She may even assume the role of his mother or try to fix something that doesn’t need to be fixed. Instead of allowing him to figure things out on his own and even allowing him to fail so he could learn from his mistakes, she expects him to follow her authority without him asking for her collaboration or advice. In such situations, a man feels that his highest truth is being suppressed in the same destructive way as his mother and female teachers diminished him when he aspired to discover himself, so his resentment of his woman would also grow.
Every man is different and may deal with such energies in their own way. For most men, frustrations of lost power and resentments can be easily released through sports, creative endeavors, hunting, shooting, or other physical endeavors. Some men try to eliminate them through excessive alcohol drinking or indulgence in recreational drugs. Some may do it through computer games or similar activities, but it depends on the stress levels and complexities of these built-up energies. Such energies can be released through a conversation with a therapist or friends. Some men, who are more spiritual in their nature, can remove them through direct interaction with the land by intentionally channeling them through their feet into the ground.
Yet there’s a way to release or process masculine frustrations or any emotional baggage a man receives from his loved ones through sexual encounters with a sacred prostitute. Nature designed the bodies of sacred prostitutes with a unique, spiritual void in their womb space that exists for this specific purpose. The primordial magic of the void of secret prostitutes can heal men from those complex emotions and other internal wounds, including feelings of unworthiness, negative self-image, as well as any kind of burden they may have received from their women, including any manifestations of their spiritual darkness, like demonic entities cast upon them by their societies. A sacred prostitute is designed to assist Nature in balancing the energies of our world, and that’s the divine mission of her soul’s evolutionary journey. Such a woman grows in her spiritual and intuitive powers by providing this sacred service to Nature. A sacred prostitute is created to easily alchemize such energies through sexual encounters and absolve them from this physical place through orgasmic collisions.
So if a man takes the negative and destructive energies created in him and pleads to a sacred prostitute to assist him with removing them, he is actually expressing true love to his woman, as he protects her energy body from his masculine darkness that may be potentially destructive to her. He doesn't feel good about himself because of the way his woman treated him at a specific moment. If he doesn’t release these energies when he knows he should and in ways that would be as little destructive as possible for everyone involved, resentment will build up between the couple. And just because a couple doesn’t know what they can do spiritually to absolve those energies, they may end up resenting each other as they experience flawed versions of themselves.
A man doesn't want those energies to be directed at his woman. He knows his essence and doesn’t like that part of him, so he asks for assistance from Nature to heal him from this burden that naturally arises in him or that he took from his partner. That's the truth about the spiritual essence of the man. He is not flawed in his natural design; it is simply his essence as a hunter, warrior, and provider. He was born this way, and trying to blame Nature for making men the way they are is a very naive and infantile perception of our reality. That masculine darkness built everything that makes our lives more comfortable. That darkness allows him to be a protector of his women and children, be that the physical or spiritual dangers of this world. That darkness makes him an empowered and conscientious hunter who strives to earn enough for his loved ones. But sometimes, that darkness consumes and overpowers him, becoming destructive for his essence and the reality around him.
Only a conscientious man who is honest with himself and understands those complex nuances of his essence can decide whether he needs outside assistance in processing such energies. He has to be sure about how a particular situation made him feel and whether asking for the services of a sex worker would be the most appropriate way in any given situation. As long as he respects and honors her divine service, compensates her with proper offerings, and uses the intention of empowerment, Nature would assist such a man with releasing these energies for the benefit of all involved.
To advance this healing, a man can also explain any particular situation or share what he feels necessary because, as a spiritual and empowered woman, a sacred prostitute creates a safe space through an open dialogue that brings to the surface the energies that need to be absolved in their upcoming ritual. Anything arising in a discussion before engaging in sexual activity, be that anger, shame, resentment, frustration, or feeling small and not enough, can help set the correct intentions that would advance any possible healing.
In this spiritual work, it is important to honor everyone involved in the process and set the intention to receive the highest and best outcome for all. A sex worker releases her ego and allows Nature to provide this service through her body, as she knows that she would be financially and spiritually compensated for her divine mission. Safety and appreciation are two main conditions for any sex magic to work. Therefore, it is vital that a sacred prostitute has a safe place to perform this spiritual work. Ideally, it should be a temple space or a sacred brothel, where the safety and comfort of a provider are considered essential parts of her work environment. For the element of appreciation or adoration in this equation, a sacred prostitute should receive enough energy in the financial form to compensate for her services so she can more easily surrender to the experience and allow Nature to heal a man through her.
In modern-day sex work, the balance of exchange may be the most crucial element, as it’s often the case that a sex worker takes more upon herself than she receives, or she has to offer a rate that is competitive for the market but doesn’t support her contribution. The only way to move forward in an empowering future would be for clients to be more aware of such situations and be honest with themselves, as their intuition knows how much they actually need to pay for such a complex service above the suggested offerings. If a man seeks the service of a sex worker to have some fun or to fulfill some sexual needs, the energies involved in the exchange would be lighter and quite different. But if a man is aware that he needs to eliminate some negative energies, build up frustrations, or even remove a dark entity that he can be only released through a sacred sexual ceremony, he’s definitely obliged to pay more. This spiritual work is one of the natural, spiritual designs of how our world is constructed and another essential reason why Nature created sex workers. If these dark and negative energies are released through sex work, then a man doesn't bring them into the shared space with his partner, and those energies are absolved in the most conscientious way possible.
We should probably add that in the modern day, much of this kind of work is done online. Authentic online sex workers have the same direct purpose of helping men release their anger and frustration, just in a more subtle way. This work is certainly less effective, but it is still worth mentioning. Online sex workers perform the archetypical role of sacred prostitutes in the arrangement with their clients. They still carry this natural womb’s void of creation on an energy level and can help to absolve these energies spiritually. It is one thing when a man becomes addicted to watching women on the screen or to his desire for ejaculation. In this scenario, his self-pleasure becomes destructive for him and to the balancing energies of the world. But here we are talking about empowering work with visual media created by adult entertainers and the healthy expression of releasing such anger or frustration. It can equally occur through a conversation with a webcam model or masturbating to a favorite porn star.
We would, of course, advise any man to seek the help of a real woman and honestly pay for the exchange because when this work is conducted through free porn, there may be little to no compensation for a service of a sex worker, and therefore, such a transaction would not be considered genuine under the laws of Nature, so it would not achieve a desired outcome (and we are certainly not talking about women who are forced to do any sex work against their free will). It is impossible to fool Nature, as the intention and honesty of the heart can be easily verified. Therefore, the exchange of energies can’t be considered equal.
If porn is created conscientiously, then it might not be the case, but that's something important to acknowledge and understand for any man who is engaging in these exchanges. And, of course, spending time with a sacred prostitute in real life is a much more fulfilling and liberating experience for a man in such a situation. The quality of the energy release is incomparable to the online sex work if we are talking about the spiritual work with complex dark energies, entities, or spiritual “demons.” The presence and the expressions of appreciation that can occur in real life would always empower this work. Usually, the entire body is involved in stress, including on a cellular level, so in most cases, a man can be fully healed only through an empowering intimate connection on a physical level. But certainly, online sex workers can absolve minor frustrations, like being abused at work, feeling angry at life’s complications or obligations, as well as minor disagreements with a partner.
Indeed, we know that sometimes, angry sex in a committed relationship can be a very healing way to move past dramas and bond lovers. Partners release the heat of the fight through lovemaking and destroy the newly created darkness through their pleasures. But it’s important for man to be self-aware about his essence and clearly see the distinction between those energies in him. Unfortunately, when any man is shamed for even considering seeing a sex worker, he can’t reach that awareness, and his essence would eventually damage the couple if such issues or certain troubles persist. There is no excuse for a man to resent this part of him and then resent his woman in return. If that resentment starts to grow, one day, it will turn into some sort of destructive patterns, addictions, or other dopamine releases created from such a defeating position. A man, consumed by this darkness and with a growing resentment of his inner essence, would seek liberation from his inner conflicts through casual affairs and random one-night stands, which are more destructive in nature compared to the sacredness of the interaction with a sacred prostitute and only create deeper destruction of his energy body, allowing his inner emptiness to consume him. Or he would simply seek escape from a relationship in one way or another, unconsciously sabotaging them in any way possible or completely removing himself from assisting his woman.
By mastering his essence, a self-aware man can manage and understand the threshold where that happens. What kinds of energies were created in him from the conflict with his woman, and can they be absolved in any way beyond seeing a sacred prostitute? His first obligation would be to attempt to release this accepted darkness in the most accessible way and as soon as possible. But if nothing else helps, he should not be punished for seeking the help of an esoteric priestess of love. If a man is ashamed or judged for dealing with his complicated nature, he can’t be honest about what is happening inside him. He can’t become a true master of himself, as he suppresses his inner truth to serve the false morals of society, pretending as if he doesn’t understand what's happening in his core essence. But in truth, his heart simply wishes to protect his wife. He shows her the deepest love and appreciation through conscientious spiritual work of this nature. He engages in a spiritual ritual with a sacred prostitute to benefit his union.
If we deepen our understanding of how this spiritual work could be done for the benefit of all involved parties, it could be performed with more profound states of awareness.
For example, if a man is more attuned to the energies of his wife, he can sense the appearance of negative energies or entities in her before they burst out in the form of confrontation. For example, if society has cast a “demon of female sin” on her or she experienced intense bullying or harassment, those emotions could form an entity of low vibrations in her. A man can then intentionally absorb this energy or spiritual being from her. A woman can also help bring awareness to this energy and tell her man where she thinks it’s manifesting in the body. A man then takes that burden of his beloved upon himself to help her release this emotional baggage. He then can either process this energy through his personal rituals or absolve it through sacred sex work. It is also important to note that when a man is aware of this work and his intentions, he can help release the burden of any woman in his life, be that friend, sister, or mother. Most of these spiritual “demons” are created in a woman by the outside world and the pressures of society. It can be energies of shame, anger, frustration, rejection, and grief. These entities do not have their own intellect upon creation, but if not processed correctly, they could grow into actual entities with reason and intentions.
The effect of this work can be deepened if a sex worker is aware of the real purpose of such a session and also consciously directs her energies to empower the intentions behind this work. It is also our understanding that the best results of this work could be achieved with providers who carry the light of the Goddesses of the underworld and death dimensions, like Isis, Neith, Imentet, or similar Goddesses of other lineages. Women with souls of Goddesses associated with soil and Earth can also assist in this work, depending on the energies of the “demon” they are working with. Our knowledge of the possibilities grows with each new experiment of this work. Intention and awareness assist in achieving even deeper results both for a client and a practitioner as they engage in sexual activity with the help of Nature. We should also point out that the same spiritual work can be performed to utilize, release, and discharge negative energies created at abusive workplaces or from other life obligations where a man may have felt abused, overpowered, or diminished in one way or another. Sacred prostitutes can help him to bring his energies into balance.
After our latest experiment, conducted for the first time with complete awareness of the entire process, we also saw results of deepened spiritual talents. The session was performed with the assistance of Inesse, who carries the light of goddess Neith in her essence. During an emotional conversation full of tears, Alexander discovered in Veronica an energetic being of guilt and shame created by Canadian society. Using his hands, he assumed that being upon himself and under the guidance of Inesse, who has direct access to the plane of Purgatory, she helped him release this entity into that realm through the passionate and fulfilling act of sex. As one of the unintentional results, they strengthened the connection to the guidance of the land both for a provider and a client. We also observed the improved communication between Alexander and Veronica on the very next day after a session.
As our understanding of this work grows, we are still in exploration states, and surely, the measurable results of this work may not be sufficiently proven. We are not claiming our perceptions with absolute and unquestionable certainty. Still, as our personal evidence expands, it is evident to us that this is one of the reasons why Nature has designed sex work and sacred prostitutes. We are eager to learn more about the possibilities of such practices, as more experiments may show deeper results. We also equally enjoy conversations on this subject, including being challenged on these topics, as we continue to collect other empowering examples of this spiritual work.